It is so hard having a family member, especially your mother, that you’ve had to say goodbye to, yet she is still alive. The possibility of running into her in the supermarket or passing her on the highway. Holidays are also very difficult. Although you part ways, you hope that things can still be cordial even though it’s awkward. My mother, she has decided to just be nasty. A very close family member called me, so distraught, because she was sitting beside my mother at a stop light, not knowing what to do, she waved and smiled at my mom. My mother smirked at her and proceeded to speed off. I will say, this person she smirked at was one of her grandchildren. How could a grandmother, even through the circumstances, snub her own grandchild? Hateful. Selfish and narcissistic! What’s the definition of narcissistic or narcissistic abuse?
Narcissistic abuse is a term that emerged in the late twentieth century, and became more prominent in the early 21st century because of the works of Alice Miller and other Neo-Freudians, rejecting psychoanalysis as being similar to the poisonous pedagogies. Miller used “narcassistic abuse” to refer to a specific form of emotional abuse of children by what she considered narcissistic parents – parents who require the child to give up their own wants and feelings in order to serve the parent’s needs for esteem, which constitutes narcissistic abuse. The term has also come to be used more widely to refer to forms of abuse in adult relationships on the part of the narcissist.
Self-help culture currently assumes that someone abused by narcissistic parenting as a child likely struggles with codependency issues in adulthood. An adult who is or has been in a relationship with a narcissist likely struggles with not knowing what constitutes a “normal” relationship.
Now how wonderful is that parenting along with allowing your child to stay around a pedophile? It’s crazy. So selfish and self serving. It’s hard not to be angry with her, it’s hard to know she hurt your child also. One day, she will be a lonely old lady in a nursing home, because of her own choices. Mom, if you read this, you’re a very selfish, sad, *****!!!!! You hurt me, and my kids, it’s on you now. My child took the high road and still smiled at you, and you, you decided to hurt her yet again. Tell us you’re a child of God, we will spit in your face, you fool yourself and mock God’s name. You have proved to us, what we knew already. Congratulations dear, you’re officially alone, and you will never see your great grandchild, ever!
Justice is what we all need, you to be locked up for failing to report sexual abuse and your husband for his crime, (to which I bet he hasn’t stopped), I bet his computer is fool of child victims. You’re sick and so is he. I will continue to find justice for us and anyone victimized by you or him. Have a great life, (NOT),!!!!!!