As I said in my last blog, there would be more to come, today I’m ready to tell you a little more of my getting past my sexual abuse. Mother’s day is Sunday, and it seems God has been saying it’s time to make a little step forward, towards my mother. I haven’t spoken to her in two to three years, because she is married to the man that molested me. I have taken my time to gather myself for a long time now, and now, I am ready to communicate with her, and her only, never again with my stepfather though. So, that being said, I sent a text my mother, bible verses every now and then, and I bought her a mother’s day card, (she did give birth to me).
I knew that today my daughter’s were meeting with her, and they were just down the road. God told me, it seemed almost a real tug, to not waste my stamp, go give her the card and a hug, even if that’s all it was. I don’t want something to happen to her or me, and me wish for the rest of my days, that I had at least spoken to her. And so I mark this day, the 8th of May, 2 days before Mother’s Day, a day of a major break through.
Now this isn’t a step for everyone, but right now at the age of 47, it is what God wants for my life. God is a must in my life. He knows what’s best, so I will try to do my best and listen to Him. \
She held me tight, and told me she loved me. I believe her, although I think she is fooled and extremely misguided. She is my mom and I do love her.