There is no fear in love. But perfect love drives out fear, because fear has to do with punishment. The one who fears is not made perfect in love. 1 John 4:18
When you love someone, you protect them, stand up for them, they can count on you no matter what mistakes they make. Too many people throw that word, Love, around lightly, then when a big problem arises, they’re ready to throw in the towel.
In the past, I was guilty of this. I don’t want to throw those words around any more. I don’t want to tell anyone I love them, unless, I’m willing to back those very important three words up.
This goes for spouses, family, friends and Christians. Self professed Christians sometimes say those words way too much. If you gossip about someone, you don’t love them. If you give someone an ultimatum, you don’t love them. How could you? If you are ready to throw a relationship away at the first sign of trouble, well, that causes fear. That’s not perfect love.
So many times in the past, people have told me they love me, but when I did something they didn’t agree with, or didn’t meet up to their standards, they abandoned me. Left me high and dry. With nothing, but hurt feelings and distrust. Please don’t do that to someone. Love them with your whole heart. Stand by them through thick and thin. You never know when it could be the last day, hour or minute that you ever see them again.
I say if you if you use the words, “I love you,” PROVE IT!!